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A factor proving a frustration to visiting groups is the "gringo" desire to come across the border and work!Do
a job! Paint...nail...saw...etc. Many directors have said to me...We want to work... not just stand around! Now, if there
isn't the kind of work they planned to do, and if they haven't accomplished their goal (i.e., worked) there is a feeling of
frustration and guilt..."bummer!" We are too project oriented...people should come first!
The contribution a group
can make is often a frustrating issue, both to you and to us. I understand that no one likes the prospect of standing around.
However, common sense, as well as culture, would suggest that individuals and/or groups first become exposed... acculturated
to the occasion...before they contribute. Many groups miss the whole thing when they arrive on the scene..."paint a building,"
"build a house," or run around the town in a quick "tract passing program"... then return. Thats not "missions!" Thats American!"
The spiritual "contribution" that most groups...especially NEW or LARGE groups can make is minimal and often at the expense
of acculturation. Why? 1 )Our ministry is with people more than projects....building relationships is essential here and takes
time. 2)We are in Mexico a relatively short time. 3) We have a faithful but small crew. 4) We have an obligation to put a
priority on our regular work with the Mexican people.
First we must learn to observe. Then we must create a good relationship
with the people...get to know them. Then start needed projects working with them. This doesn't happen in a day. We always
want to do a "quickie" token job...and rush home! You will find a deep and rewarding experience if you will prepare yourself
to take a slow and faithful approach to your missionary ministryacross the border. A first time visit should be a time of
observing and accultration. This can produce vision. Vision is the first step in building a healthy ministry.
Most
men want to have the plan...the schedule...the program all laid out ahead of time. Everything firm. All the details taken
care of. Here is when we will arrive. Here is what we need. Here is what we will do. Here is when we leave. Here is when we
return home.
A ministry in Mexico does not lend itself to that kind of thinking! This is where the frustration comes...over
and over again...often! Leaders can't seem to get that through their heads. You have to approach ministry...even a trip into
Mexico, differently. You will be involved in conditions that you cannot foresee (change) and conditions you will have no control
over. Be prepared for this if you plan to work in Mexico (or another culture). BE FLEXABLE!!!!
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